Balphazar's Blog

A new chapter in my life has started and that is one of being a married man. I am married to an amazing individual who is nothing short of perfection. Everything and anything that I could hope for in my wife she has in her. But what makes her so perfect? Tonight’s topic will be of the perfect partner. Those of you who are close to me will know of my mindset when it comes to relationships of any sort and now that I am married I reaffirm that belief. Before you get into any sort of relationship you must make yourself ready and worthy of that relationship. Are you friend material? Are you boyfriend/girlfriend material? Are you worth marrying? These are all questions that you must ask your own self and answer for your own self. I believe that everyone has about 5 things that they will never compromise on. Everyone also at the same time is looking for about 5 characteristics in whoever they want a relationship with. One must figure out the answers to these questions before engaging in any kind of relationship. Know yourself before you take on the adventure of knowing someone else. If you dont know who you are and what you are about how can you expect someone else to figure you out? If you dont know yourself how can you expect others to know how to treat you right? Now once you figure these things out for yourself you have to let your partner know what those things are. Once your partner knows these things about you and agrees to them then and only then have you created the best foundation and base to start building a relationship on. Everyone has been brought up differently. Everyone has had different experiences that has shaped who they are and the way they process things. It is essential that these things be known upfront to both you and your partner because only then can everyone know what is and isnt acceptable in the relationship going forward. Every relationship failing is your fault if you dont follow these things. At the end of the day the journey is how great of friends can you become with someone else. Do you have what it takes to be someone’s everything?