Everyone, sooner or later, looks to find that special someone who can fill the void. Fill that feeling of lonliness and darkness that creeps up when you least expect it. As each day passes regret fills you up about those past relationships you have had and wished you had had. Maybe if you had done things differently you might be happy. Its better to have never loved than to have love and it gets taken away.
*le sigh* so many things go into making a relationship work. As a guy not only do you have to be the one to make your love happy but you cannot rely solely on her to make you happy. I wish women would get it through their heads that they arent always right.
“Us men can never win an argument against women. Its because we have a handicap. The thing is that we need things to make sense and seem logical. Women dont let such petty things like sense and logic get in their way” – Chris Rock.
Just a piece of advice to all you heartbroken and lonley people: there is no point in dwelving in the past. There isnt anything that you could have done to prevent the reltionship from ending. Realise that you could only go so far and if the other isnt trying to make things work out then the reltionship is bound for failure. Be proud of yourself of who you are. Obviously you have faults. Know them and try to overcome them. Your true life partner will not only accept your faults but also try and help you overcome them.
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You have wisdom Balphazar, I too feel like you did. and it helps to know we aren’t alone, that others feel like you but may not have the courage to speak from the heart like you, great blog đ