I’m back, hopefully this time permanantly. So I’ve been collecting subject materials for a couple weeks and now I have finally concluded on blogging mostly on relationships.
So this topic of relationships is very vast and so does require both experience and wisdom to understand and work with. Now under no circumstance should you assume that my methods, if you want to call it that, work every single time. My blogs are simply conclusions I have come to with my experiences in relationships. If you readers would like me to continue with the topic I ask that you leave me feedback so that I can better my content. Obviously I don’t know everything. I’m a guy. What do us guys know?
let’s start at the very beginning. In order to have a relationship the first and foremost detail is yourself. There are many problems and situations that can be avoided, prevented and/or solved if you can get a PhD in knowing yourself. What do I mean by this? Let’s start with who are you? What are you about? What are your strengths and weaknesses as a person? What ticks you off? What makes you happy? Many a people say that in order to have a successful relationship you need to be able to click with the other person or that the two of you need to have things in common. Well when you like someone to the point where you want to be with them then the above statement is very ridiculous and pointless.
You have to figure yourself out before you devote your time in figuring out other people. Only by knowing yourself will you be able to find a suitable person that is compatible to you. Big tits and nice ass doesn’t make a relationship last nor does tall, dark and handsome. Now you may sit there and think well duh I know myself. Of course I know what I am looking for in my significant other. But do you really? What most people confuse themselves with is what they want in someone and what they need in someone. For example you may be the type who enjoys traveling and site seeing. For such a person you NEED an adventurous personality to click with. But instead what people WANT is someone who likes the same movies or something dumb like that. What I’m trying to say is that people go about asking for or rather they look for the wrong things in a mate BECAUSE THEY DON’T KNOW THEMSELVES.
As mentioned before you NEED TO KNOW what ticks you off as well. If you are someone who can’t stand a messy house/room don’t try to get with someone who is a slob but is so god damn good looking you want to dry hump them. If you are looking for a casual fling or something to keep you occupied then you aren’t really serious about getting with someone. IF you are looking for a long term and a permanant relationship then KNOW YOURSELF.
Along with knowing what ticks you off see where you lose your patience with people. If you are constantly getting into arguments with him/her because you keep getting fed up with some of their actions then that relationship won’t last. Are you someone who gets pissed very easily? Or can you swallow your anger and let it go sometime? Do you have the patince to deal with him/her even though they do certain things that tick you off?
The reason I say KNOW YOURSELF is because once you master who you are you can let the other know. In a relationship honesty is everything. A lot of times people get with each other and commit to one another only to find out later that he/she do things that are ruining the relationship. If you know yourself such excuses and complaints will not be from you or because of you.
What are your thoughts? Agree? Disagree? Have similar or contradictory experiences? Share them with a comment below. Id love to hear your thoughts.
That’s all for today! See you all next week 🙂